Live for yourself each and every moment: We always tend to feel that we must be perfect, good and enlightened in order to enjoy each and every moment. There is one simple thing that helps us stay relaxed and it is pretending as what we want instead of worrying. Comparing with others will only lead to stress and depression. Judging ourselves will also lead to more pressure. Raising human consciousness will lead to lightening up of mind, body and soul.
Make sure that you are concentrating on personal growth as a means of getting what you want: We often tend to feel that personal growth is achieving what we intend to achieve. This is a wrong idea. Peace exists here and now. It is not materialistic possession that brings in peace. We need to consider personal growth in terms of raising human consciousness and not

